Welcome to this website for my Mother, Mair Morgan.  

This was originally going to be a site that showcased some of her artwork and writing. 

Sadly now due to the unacceptable situation of suffering that she and myself, her son Richard, find ourselves in, it has become a site for awareness of her plight in the hope that help can be received, to enable my Mum to live in our own Family Home again as she wants to do, as I want her to, with Home Care being the least restrictive option to my Mum's Liberty and Right to Family Life.



                                      

My 84 year old Mum, held captive against her will and wishes in a Care Home that she has said she detests being in and that she wants to come back home again to our Family home.

Please help to save my Mother's life from the captivity, pain and suffering that she is in.  Mair used to have her own mobile phone and phoned me on it herself often, before it was taken off her by Care Home staff.

                 On this site you will see a small selection of the many things that she has said to me about how she feels being held where she currently is.

From reading her words you will have a clear idea of the emotional,  physical and psychological distress that she is enduring and of the upset that she is going through.  Every word presented here my Mum has said to me in our phone calls.



The current situation is that my Mum has been classed as an Adult without Capacity from an assessment done on her in January 2020 when she was ill in hospital suffering from a viral bacterial infection and UTI. She was experiencing moments of clarity and more often than confusion. One thing she was very clear about when asked by Social Services staff was that she did not want to go into a Care home at all, and after leaving hospital to return to her Family home, our bungalow to live with me. Her views, wishes and feelings were not taken into account and instead she was put into the Care home she is still in. The Local Authority are aware of her feelings of hating it there and of the unhappiness she is in and yet still maintain that they are acting in her best interests and it being of benefit to Mair to be kept somewhere she does not want to be, against her wishes, instead of being where she does want to be, back home. There is a least restrictive option available which is for Mair to live back home again with Home Care staff provided that I have managed to source and are available to start work immediately. From the many conversations I have had with my Mum and of knowing her ability to communicate clearly her views, wishes and opinions I believe that my Mum does have Capacity to decide for herself where she wants to live and she should have the Right to freedom and liberty to live where she wants to live.

The quotes listed below are from the many phone calls that my Mum Mair used to make to me herself on her own mobile phone, before it was taken from her by Care Home staff.  For safeguarding purposes and personal use, the calls were recorded with her consent, which she does understand the meaning of, and everything my Mum has said to me is of her own free will and admission in her expression of her unhappiness, upset and distress at being in the Care Home, and her clear wish to be back Home again.

“I don’t want to be in this room”   “I’m not feeling very good”   “I feel like I’m going to die”   “I’d like to come home to the bungalow” 
“My legs are hurting me, I can’t move my feet much”   “I don’t want to be here”   “It’s horrible, I hate it here” 
“I don’t want to be suffering all the time”   “I hate this bloody place”   “I can’t hate it more than I do”   “I don’t like any of them here” 
“I want to be with you all the time”   “I don’t like it here”   “I wish we were together”   “I wish I was with you now”  “I just want to be where you are”  
“I miss you Rich, I miss you so much”   “I want to be in our bungalow with you” “I long for those days darling about coming home” 
“Can I do anything to help”  “I’m not feeling very well”   “I’m frightened of being in this place and never coming out of here”   “I’m very unhappy” 
“All I want to do is cry because I don’t like it here or these people”   “It’s killing me this is, it’s killing me”   “I’m afraid I’m not going to make it” 
"I'm sorry but I just can't go on anymore"   "I've never hated a place so much in my life as this place"   “I’m in agony here” 
“I don’t know how much longer I can do this”   “I’m dreading having a bath because they’re so rough”  
“I hope it doesn’t go on much longer being here”  
“I don’t want to be here”   “I just want to cry all the time”   “I wish I could be home with you”   “I hate this place so much" 
"I sometimes feel like giving up, I hate it here that much"   “I love it when we talk together, it would be quite miserable if we couldn’t talk” 
“I’m still in the chair unfortunately, it’s not very good for me”   “If only you knew how much I want to get out of here” 
“I’m exhausted with these people here, I can’t cope anymore”   “That’s all I want in my life is to be with you in our own bungalow” 
"I long for the days of being back home again with you Rich and living a happy life together"
                                                                     "I sometimes wish I was dead so that I didn't have to be here".

To contact me about the content of this website and for further information or if you can help my Mum and I in some way then please email me at:  richardmorganhere@yahoo.com  Thank you.



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